"STOP WISHING, STOP WAITING, GO MAKE IT HAPPEN ALREADY"

In Cyrano De Bergerac's play, it asked one important question, "Should one put aside the beloved object’s feeling and put his or her personal feeling first?" This is the answer for that question.

Feeling can be very hard to expect especially when it comes to love and romance. When it comes to that matter of subject, a person who involve with it will find very hard to hide his or her feeling. When he or she falls in love with someone, either they know them or not, to make a love confession can be very difficult. He or she will most probably think whether the person will like them too or not. It is either they will be rejected or not. A lot of things may come across to their mind as they are trying to make the confession. As for me, it is not wrong to put our feeling as the priority regarding with the matter. To confess something that can be very hard to say and once we say it, it is like a big burden release from our heart. You will feel the peace. It does not matter at all about the result we will get from the confession we have made as long as we have confess it.

But, one thing to remember is that do not hope too much when you are trying to confess. When we are hoping too much for the relationship, and let say another party rejected you, you will be in despair. You will find it is very sad and heartbroken. Remember, for girls, if you are confessing your love towards a guy you have like for a long time, and then he rejected you, it does not mean it is the end of everything. There will be one great and better guy waiting for you out there. Same goes for the boy, there will be one great and better girl for you. Below are the quotes from Glee.

"You should know that there is some boy out there who's going to like you for everything you are. Including those parts of you that you don't even like. Those are going to be the things he likes the most."

Does it take time to recover from being rejected? It depends on the person and how he or she fully adapts with the situation. To make you ease the pain effectively and forget about that person you used to admire, all you need to do is just go and make some new friends. Make the past experience as a learning process for you to find a good partner. In addition, the experience you gain can make you stronger later on. As a conclusion, we must put our feeling in the first place rather than other's feeling.